Psalm 100:2 says, “Worship the LORD with gladness; come before him with joyful songs
“...
because you did not serve YHWH your God in joy and in good-feeling of
heart of of the abundance of everything.” (Deuteronomy 28:47)
One
commentary notes about this, “Because thou servedst not the Lord
thy God,.... By attending his worship, and keeping his commandments:
with joyfulness and gladness of heart, for the
abundance of all things; which they enjoyed in the land of Canaan, a
land that abounded with all good things; which laid them under great
obligations to serve the Lord: and yet, as they were wanting in a
ready attendance on his worship, and in a cheerful obedience to his
laws, so in their sacrifices, of praise and thanksgivings for their
manifold mercies; and, because of all this, the curses written in
this book came upon them.” [1]
Commentary notes they neglected God,
worshiping Him, being grateful to Him and delighting in obedience to
Him for trying to fill themselves on the abundance of the land.
Their attention moved off to God and on to the stuff around them.
They became pleasure lovers and all about filling themselves.
When
things do not go as planned, it sometimes can be easy to fall into
complaining. We complain to people about our circumstances,
complain to God about what we are going through, and/or complain to
others about someone else. In the middle of having so much abundance
we (okay me) sometimes lack gratitude for the abundance of all things
we have been given. We expect circumstances to cater and be
accommodating to what we want and desire.
When
I went to Haiti a year ago on a mission trip, there was no hot water
and showers were limited due to water availability. When we slept at
night, several people were bitten by bugs that left little red marks.
We slept on little cots, were without air conditioning and only had
fans because we brought our own.
While
I only lived in these circumstances for a few weeks, I was living
among people who would consider our accommodations a luxury. And
the kids who we lived among struggled daily with physical
limitations.
Yet,
in the midst of this environment, people did not complain. They were
so grateful to be at this place -they loved it. It was a safe
place where there was food, a place to sleep, and lots of love by the
staff. Among such poverty all around, people were full of joy and
grateful for what they had.
Sometimes
I think it is because of the overabundance of stuff that we struggle
as much as we do. It is hard to be grateful for the little things
when we have so much. And it is easy to find many other things to
fill us. Indulgence is a sin that draws us further from God and
leaves us craving more.
Sometime
ago, I had a dream that a Haitian woman was making cookies. She was
a strong spiritual woman. When I went to get some cookies, what I
heard spoke to me was that my over indulgent appetite was keeping me
from being as connected with God. It was suffocating my relationship
and I had to choose which I would sacrifice.
The
problem is that I sometimes choose wrongly. When I think about it, I
want to choose God, but in the moment, I take the small indulgences.
Usually this is when I am disappointed and frustrated. Or
sometimes it is anger at God in the moment or discontentment over
something that didn't turn out as I hoped.
Solomon
was someone who started out well, desiring wisdom to serve God. But
later, as he was surrounded with abundance, he drowned in indulgence.
He did not end the same way he started. Indulgence in riches,
women and the things of the world, filled his heart and left no room
for God.
Ecclesiastes
6:7-9 says, “All man’s efforts are for his mouth, yet
his appetite is never satisfied. What advantage has a wise man over a
fool? What does a poor man gain by knowing how to conduct himself
before others? Better what the eye sees than the roving of the
appetite. This too is meaningless, a chasing after the wind.”
Self
indulgence is no difference than the sin of greed. Matthew 23:25
says, “"Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you
hypocrites! You clean the outside of the cup and dish, but inside
they are full of greed and self-indulgence.”
Self-indulgence
is any excess in gratifying our own desires, papering, humoring or
spoiling ourselves. We choose luxury and comfort over serving.
We choose any excessive satisfaction of self, or yielding to whims to
satisfy our sensual appetites for the purpose of pleasing the self.
[2]
Philippians
3:18-19 says, “For I have told you often before, and I say it again
with tears in my eyes, that there are many whose conduct shows they
are really enemies of the cross of Christ. They are headed for
destruction. Their god is their appetite, they brag about shameful
things, and they think only about this life here on earth.”
Paul
warns in 2 Timothy 3:1-5, “You should know this, Timothy, that in
the last days there will be very difficult times. For people
will love only themselves and their money. They will be boastful and
proud, scoffing at God, disobedient to their parents, and ungrateful.
They will consider nothing sacred. They will be unloving and
unforgiving; they will slander others and have no self-control. They
will be cruel and hate what is good. They will betray their
friends, be reckless, be puffed up with pride, and love pleasure
rather than God. They will act religious, but they will reject
the power that could make them godly. Stay away from people like
that!”
“What's
it going to be today, lust or devotion?” sings.
On
the other hand, the lack of ever allowing oneself any comfort or
pleasures can also be unhealthy. One can go to the other extreme
and deny themselves any comforts at the expense of their health.
“Above
all else I choose You” sings.
What
matters is not what we eat or drink but the heart behind our choices.
If I am enjoying comforts and luxuries in the moment as a gift from
God with a heart of gratitude, using them as opportunities to love
God and others, it is not sin.
What
is sin is when, like Solomon, we seek to fill our appetites on the
things of the world. One's decisions are made out of their own
pleasure, comfort, and satisfaction of self over serving and loving
others and God. We are not enjoying things of the world out of
gratitude and celebration of God but a looking to be satisfied or
consoled by them. And feeding on luxuries, comforts and pleasures
with this heart gives us a little satisfaction in the moment but
ultimately leaves us craving and discontent.
Ecclesiastes
2:1, “I said to myself, “Come on, let’s try pleasure. Let’s
look for the ‘good things’ in life.” But I found that this,
too, was meaningless.”
The
answer to indulgence is not necessarily abstinence but gratitude and
devotion. Rather than looking for things in this world to satisfy
us and fill us up, we look to God. Our contentment can only be found
in him. If there are things in our lives that are leading to
dissatisfaction, we repent and ask for God's help to put those areas
in our lives to death.
“If
we die with Him, we will live with Him” sings.
Lord,
forgive me for whenever I have tried to fill discontentment, stress
or frustration with anything the world has to offer. Your are the
source of all good things. Give us hearts fully devoted to You.
“Dear
God,
Sometimes my life is so rushed that
I have a hard time remembering to be grateful.
And even when I do remember I don't pause to say thanks.
So help me to remember all the things for which I'm thankful.
For my friends, who make me laugh and keep me laughing at myself.
For my family, who you chose to be with me -- sometimes for reasons I can't quite see!
For my religious community, which invites me to connect with you in new ways.
For my job, which helps me put food on the table and clothes on my back.
And if I have no family or friends, or don't have a job, let me still be grateful.
For my country, which gives me the freedom to be the person I hope to become.
For my health, which helps me to praise you, and enables me to help others in need.
For the world itself, which you crown with your beauty.
And if I'm still not feeling grateful, increase my gratitude for little things.
For seeing a tree slowly turn red in the fall.
For the surprising cold of the first snowflake on my face.
For hearing a child's laughter on a sad day.
For seeing a beautiful sunset after a tough week.
And if I'm still not grateful,
or am too rushed to savor all you have given me,
Please increase my openness to gratitude.
Magnify my ability to appreciate life.
And help me grow in thankfulness.
Sometimes my life is so rushed that
I have a hard time remembering to be grateful.
And even when I do remember I don't pause to say thanks.
So help me to remember all the things for which I'm thankful.
For my friends, who make me laugh and keep me laughing at myself.
For my family, who you chose to be with me -- sometimes for reasons I can't quite see!
For my religious community, which invites me to connect with you in new ways.
For my job, which helps me put food on the table and clothes on my back.
And if I have no family or friends, or don't have a job, let me still be grateful.
For my country, which gives me the freedom to be the person I hope to become.
For my health, which helps me to praise you, and enables me to help others in need.
For the world itself, which you crown with your beauty.
And if I'm still not feeling grateful, increase my gratitude for little things.
For seeing a tree slowly turn red in the fall.
For the surprising cold of the first snowflake on my face.
For hearing a child's laughter on a sad day.
For seeing a beautiful sunset after a tough week.
And if I'm still not grateful,
or am too rushed to savor all you have given me,
Please increase my openness to gratitude.
Magnify my ability to appreciate life.
And help me grow in thankfulness.
For
that alone I would thank you,
Dear God. ” [3]
Dear God. ” [3]
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