Practice Hospitality....

 
“Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise to God.” (Romans 15:7)

Accept is Strongs #4355, the Greek word proslambano, and it means to receive or welcome as an intimate friend. It suggests taking a special interest in the other, showing the kindness and granting them access to one's heart.

The context Paul was saying this was in confronting them for judging one another for their external acts. They were seeing religion by what people did and passing judgment on them. Paul tells them in Romans 14:13, “Therefore let us stop passing judgment on one another. Instead, make up your mind not to put any stumbling block or obstacle in the way of a brother or sister.”

They were deeming some things 'unclean'. Paul confronts this and tells them that nothing is unclean in itself (Rom 14:14) What matters is acting in love (Rom. 14:15)

The kingdom of God is not about what we do or put into our bodies, as if certain things are holy and others are not... he tells us the kingdom of God is not about such things but about righteousness, peace and joy in the Holy Spirit (Rom. 14:16).

He goes on to tell them in Rom. 14:19, “Let us therefore make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual edification.”

How often we see Christians being unaccepting of people because of their own religious beliefs, shying away or avoiding the person who is considered “unclean” by one's own judgments rather than welcome them with open arms. 

 Or what I sometimes see is a  person is treated like a Christian project. We have pity on them and come to their rescue trying to help them rather than treat them as our equal and empower them.

I have this Christian Icon on my computer screen (above) as a reminder. It is Jesus with the woman at the well. What I find interesting about the picture is that Jesus is sitting down and bearfoot while this woman is standing up with a dignified stance and dress. 

Too often in my time as a Christian, I have gravitated to a picture where the Christian is tall and dignified, bending over to reach down and touch the poor.  Perhaps this is the way I see God at times... bending over and reaching down to meet our needs.  

While there is a time for reaching out and extending help, this was not the welcoming hospitality that Jesus frequently gave to others in his path.  He empowered them by coming under, being their friend  and lifting them up.     

Jesus went out of his way to come down and lift us up rather than staying at His high position of glory and helping us from there.   Philippians 2:5-8 says,... although He existed in the form of God... [He] emptied Himself, taking the form of a bond-servant, and being made in the likeness of men."  And on the cross, He took the lowest position as He was lifted up on the cross in our place in order that we could be freed.    

Romans 12:10-13 says, “Be devoted to one another in love.  Honor one another above yourselves.  Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord.  Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer.  Share with the Lord's people who are in need.  Practice hospitality."

Hospitality to others is something expected as a fruit of our Christianity. In 1 Timothy 5:10, Paul told Timothy to not put on the list for support widows unless they were faithful to their husbands, known for good deeds and show hospitality.

Hebrews 13:2 says, “Do not forget to show hospitality to strangers, for by so doing some people have shown hospitality to angels without knowing it.”

We are to embrace those who come across our path and welcome them with open arms and hearts.  But what does this look like?  

There is a wonderful demonstration of what this kind of  hospitality looks like in Acts 28:2. A group of islanders who had not been exposed to the gospel, saw the need of some hungry, tired, and half drown people and welcomed them in.  The group that included a Centurion, soldiers, sailors, and prisoners who had been out to sea, stuck in a storm for many days without food.


They showed up on the island with nothing but their needs.   Yet these islanders, rather than fear them and shut them out,  took them out of the rain and cold and built a fire to warm them.  They not only provided for their warmth and food, but then welcomed them into their home and showed generosity to them.   When they eventually were leaving, they even furnished them with the supplies they needed.

What does it look like to demonstrate this kind of hospitality to those who come across our paths in our everyday lives? To welcome and receive those who come across our path with love and acceptance for who they are, exactly how they are now (not how we think they should be). [a]

Leveticus 19:34 says, “The foreigner residing among you must be treated as your native-born. Love them as yourself, for you were foreigners in Egypt. I am the LORD your God.”

Jesus and Paul not only demonstrated hospitality, but they received it.

Zecchaeus the tax collector for example, who had climbed up in a tree to see Jesus. Jesus noticed him, told him to come down and gave him the honor of offering to stay at his house. It was a vulnerable position for Jesus to take as he looked to receive hospitality from Zecchaeus.

Jesus asked the woman at the well to give her a drink of water and Paul counted on other's hospitality in inviting him in and caring for him when he went to a new area to preach the gospel.

I think I struggle more with vulnerably receiving what others who need to be empowered have to give more than I do giving to them. I wonder what it looks like to make myself for vulnerable to receive the hospitality of others as well.

Lord, I long to be better at welcoming those who come across my path during the day.  I also long to be better at receiving the hospitality of others.  Give us grateful hearts to receive the care of others and help us to look more like you with the way we come under others to lift them up.



"Let the beloved of the LORD rest secure in him, for he shields him all day long, and the one the LORD loves rests between his shoulders."

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